Tavi Stars
My Second Life Profile & Picks
Please DO NOT view this site or interact with me if you are:
🔞 A real-life minor ◦ 💰 A crypto/NFT broThis space contains NSFW content and may include topics that some might find sensitive or triggering. So if this isn’t your vibe, kindly move along.SL Profile ◦ Linktree ◦ Primfeed ◦ Twitter ◦ Bluesky ◦ FacebookLast Updated: 12/02/2025
I created this space as a way to share more about myself than Second Life’s Profile or Picks sections allow. SL’s TOS restricts things like NSFW content or certain types of photos from being included directly in your profile, so this gives me a safe and respectful way to express myself more freely. It also helps me bypass SL’s tight character limits (which is a lifesaver, since I love to write and go into detail). Plus, having everything in one spot, whether it’s updates, personal info, or links to my social media, makes it easier to manage and keep current. Think of this as my extended digital home, where I can be a bit more me.
Important Info
Voice, Photos & Video Chat
I do not use voice chat or listen to voice chat, ever. I also don’t get on cam or share real-life photos, and I don’t want to see your photos or videos either. These are firm, non-negotiable boundaries that my real-life partner and I have established for our mutual comfort and safety. Please respect them. If they’re crossed or ignored, I will take whatever steps are necessary to protect my peace and well-being.I don’t even own a working mic at the moment, and I usually keep SL sounds muted unless I’m attending a live event or watching something with audio, like a movie. As someone with AuDHD, I’m highly sensitive to sound, and group voice chats can quickly become overwhelming and stressful. I often enjoy watching TV or listening to music while in SL, and I share my space with my real-life partner and mother, so we talk throughout the day. Voice chatting in SL would not only disrupt that flow, but honestly, it would frustrate me and the people around me.That said, I’m happy to stay connected outside of SL via text on platforms like Discord or Facebook, with people I trust. Thanks for respecting my comfort and communication style.
My Avatar and age
My avatar is always portrayed as 18 years old or older, no exceptions. Do not ask me to age down. Do not attempt to engage in roleplay with me if you, whether in real life or as your avatar, are under 18 years old. The only exception is PG-rated family roleplay involving child avatars, and even then, the person behind the avatar must be 18 or older in real life.This is a non-negotiable boundary rooted in Linden Lab’s TOS, personal ethics, and safety. Any attempts to ignore or push this line will result in immediate blocking and land bans from my homes. If you enage in activities that break Second Life's Terms of Service or Community Guidelines, do not befriend me and kindly exit my SL life. I take my space, comfort, and peace seriously, respect that, or move along.In real life, I’m a proud Gen X adult. I’ve lived a lot of life and carry with me the experiences, depth, and pace that come with it. While I’m always open to meaningful connections with people over 18, I’m most comfortable interacting with fellow adults who are 30 and older. I just don’t have much in common with those still in college or figuring out the earliest stages of adulthood, and that’s okay. This isn’t about judgment; it’s about compatibility, shared wavelength, and mutual understanding.That said, if you're a kind, grounded, and mature person over 18 who respects boundaries, you’re welcome to say hi. Just know that I’m here for authentic connections.
My Timezone & Availability
My time zone is MST (GMT-7), which aligns with SLT for about half the year. That said, my online hours can be quite fluid due to severe insomnia and the day-to-day realities of living with a disability. My sleep schedule doesn’t always follow a typical rhythm, you might catch me online during standard SLT hours, or well past midnight and into the early morning.Fibromyalgia, along with my other overlapping health conditions, makes life incredibly unpredictable. Living with chronic illness means my sleep, energy, and functionality can shift with little notice. There are days I start out barely able to move from overwhelming pain and fatigue, only to feel “almost human” by the afternoon. Conversely, I might begin the day feeling relatively okay and then get hit by a migraine, pain flare-up, or a wave of exhaustion that forces me offline for the rest of the day or even several days. I live with constant, full-body pain even on my “good” days, and that alone significantly impacts my presence online. This baseline pain is a constant companion, not something that ever truly goes away, only fluctuates in intensity.On top of that, my anxiety and heightened sensory sensitivities can further complicate things. Bright lights, scents, certain sounds, or even just too much input at once can quickly become overwhelming, sometimes triggering migraines, panic responses, or complete exhaustion. It’s not just physical, it’s also deeply mental and emotional. All of this shapes how I engage with the world, including how and when I’m able to be online. At times, especially following travel, emotionally intense events, or extended activity, my body demands more rest and recovery. Late fall and winter tend to be especially rough, and I often need to slow down more during those seasons. If a flare-up hits suddenly, I may have to log out without much notice. I deeply appreciate and hope for your understanding when this happens. It’s important to me that my SL friends and chosen family not only know this reality, but accept it with grace.Sadly, I’ve been on the receiving end of guilt-tripping and harsh judgment over my SL absences, even after being upfront and communicative about my health from the beginning. If your expectations require friends, family, or partners to log in daily, at consistent times, for hours on end and you tend to ghost, unfriend, or sever ties when someone can’t meet that standard, I say this gently but clearly: I’m not the right fit for you. I don’t live on SL, and I’m not online every day. Typically, I’m active in-world around four days a week, and when I do log in, I’m usually present anywhere from 2 to 6 hours. I intentionally balance my time between Second Life, my creative hobbies, other games I love, and, most importantly, my real-life partner, my mom, and our fur baby.I’ve experienced deep heartbreak from people who once said they cared about or loved me, people I confided in, people I kept informed through Discord, only for them to disappear or reject me when I couldn’t meet their expectations around my presence in SL. That’s a wound I no longer wish to reopen. So if what I’ve shared doesn’t align with your values or your way of showing up in friendship, family, or partnership, I kindly ask that you walk away now. Truly, it’s okay. I wish you well. But if you’re someone who values connection rooted in kindness, emotional presence, flexibility, and mutual care, then I’d love to meet you.I may not always be consistent in hours or days, but my heart and care are unwavering. When I’m online, I show up grounded, attentive, and present. I also stay reachable via Discord and always let those I care about know when I’ll be away for any meaningful stretch of time. My time and energy are precious, and so is yours. I share both intentionally, and I cherish deep, soulful bonds. If that resonates with you, then I truly hope we get the chance to connect.Consistency may look different for me but my love, loyalty, and presence are beautifully steady.